Playing the Victim
Hello all. Here is one that in my experience has had little exposure. Recently I have noticed how many people like to "control" the actions of others.EXAMPLE: A person at work goes around doing other...
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That's a great point Rich and something I just saw. So how would you handle that? The s/he person would be overwhelmed and probably feel unappreciated. Have to work late to make up for it. Most would...
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I like too imagine myself as a little toe. Although I'm totally aware of the other toes on my foot as hard as I try I can't seem to get over to the others to assume their work load. I can empathize as...
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Two months later i realized the same thing. How interesting Richgar, I think that for years i've been letting myself play the victim and as of recently i've had that fed up feeling you were...
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Bravo! Now your are one. A true supervisor. Speed comes with practice or repetitive action. At first slow and methodical then faster & faster until the correct rate of speed is achieved. Before...
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That reminds me of learning to type (or anything else). It's better to learn slow and do it right then speed comes later...better than fast and sloppy. Sometimes it takes time for a new skillset to...
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Right. Every cell in our bodies have memory. Once our body learns a skill it no longer requires the mind to supervise it. Case in point. When is the last time your mind was directly involved in you...
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I guess my frustration at work stems from the progress being so slow. I used to have alot of patience a few years back (~10 yrs ago in H.S.) and once I got used to the tedious things i sped up and...
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In one word Jae? Attitude. What's fun for some is boring for others. We live in a world of duality. So what is mundane for some is challenging for others. Case in point. We all express ourselves in...
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Dear Serena we are as strong as the we allow ourselves to be. I like to tell you a story. One that I tell to my business clients. It goes like this, "Never, never but never leave the ball on your side...
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I programmed to understand more and more about me. I programmed to pick up what's really "wrong" and distinguish between what's negative in itself and what's not advantageous for me.I discovered I...
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Thank you S. for your question because by you asking we all learn, grow and prosper. For spiritual growth we first must recognize that Love is and energy. In fact it's the only energy in the universe...
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Thank YOU. Everyday I discover that there's lots to learn and how much I still ignore. Mainly about myself.It took a time to write down my last post, because I reflect on the subject and learn while I...
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Good intentions and well meaning behavior either levies control from you or towards you. In either case it is an undesirable behavior.
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Richard, if you sent me energy for calming my anxiety, it worked, thanks!Now here are some news about my job.I programmed to understand what was/what is wrong, and I caught some missing details.I...
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Remember the best tools you have in your mental tool box when dealing with people are the Mental Screen; Mirror Of the Mind and the Three Fingers Technique. On the MOM see your current situation in...
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Thank you Richard.The secundary effect of the program aimed to "understanding what's wrong" is sometimes painful, but it's really useful for discovering one's errors and working on changes.I also...
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After you have used the procedure mentioned in my last post, and you met with some success build on that success in your next programming.
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